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Grief Educational Program or Bereavement Group?

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As an Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist® many people have asked me what the difference is between The Grief Recovery Method® educational program and bereavement groups. Since I have participated in both, I wanted to share my perspective.

BEREAVEMENT GROUPS

After the suicides of two friends, no one seemed to want to talk to me about what happened. Because I REALLY needed to talk about these suicides in order to try and make sense of it all, I finally joined a suicide bereavement group. This group was sponsored by a local Mental Health clinic and facilitated by a licensed clinical social worker. It was a safe place for me to talk to other individuals who had also been through the suicide of someone close to them. I was able to share and express the feelings that I had bottled up inside of me. It was probably the best thing I could have done at the time. I felt like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders after every meeting finished.  Little by little I started to feel better.

Bereavement groups are also offered by churches or synagogues, as well as by funeral homes, hospitals or hospices. They are mostly focused on death, rather than divorce or other losses. They are open to anyone and are sometimes offered on a “drop-in” basis – individuals are welcome to come and go as needed. These groups help individuals to feel less isolated from society while they are grieving. They provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental atmosphere where grievers can talk to each other about what they’re experiencing. After all, one of the most important aspects for a griever is the need to be heard and not feel alone.  Bereavement groups do just that.

THE GRIEF RECOVERY METHOD® EDUCATIONAL PROGRAM: 

There are other groups that offer a different approach – a structured program aimed at recovery.  One of those is The Grief Recovery Method® educational program which uses a long-established format based on the principles and actions of The Grief Recovery Handbook. Their format offers a structured action plan to help grieving people discover and complete what was left emotionally unfinished as a result of any loss – not just the death of a loved one. It differs from traditional bereavement support groups in several ways. One difference is it is focused exclusively on recovery from grief, rather than primarily being a place for sharing feelings. Another is that the program is presented over a period of weeks and is facilitated by Certified Grief Recovery Specialists®. As part of my grief journey, I found the outreach program to help me recover from the unresolved grief that came as a result of my friends’ suicides, as well as the other loss events in my life – like divorce, moving, miscarriage, etc. It became an opportunity for me to complete these unresolved feelings so that  could move on in my life.

Bottom line is that a bereavement group had wonderful value for me. It helped me as a  griever feel less isolated and have a safe place to express my grief. The Grief Recovery Method® educational program helped me move from my grief to recovery. I found both to be valuable as I moved through my own personal grief journey.

Below is a short video describing The Grief Recovery Method® educational program in more detail.

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Non-Traditional Support

Non-Traditional Grief Support

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There is no written law that says you have to find a therapist or join a support group when you are grieving. I looked into grief and loss support after my friend Joy died but never went. When my former fiancé John died, I immediately signed up for a Survivors After Suicide support group. You have to do what works best for you and where you are on your own grief journey. At some point you may decide you want to find support. If so, there are different types. Some are more traditional; others more non-traditional.

Non-Traditional Grief Support

Non-traditional support is outside the “mainstream” of what we are normally used to seeking out when grief comes calling. Personally I embrace these options. I couldn’t have moved forward in my own grief without a combination of the Survivors After Suicide support group, the Grief Recovery Method®[1] and Reiki. Each one provided value in its own way.  These non-traditional approaches to grief and loss are worth exploring for your own journey. Non-traditional grief and loss support includes:

Grief Educational or Recovery Programs. There are some groups that offer a different approach to grief and loss through a structured program aimed at education and recovery. The Grief Recovery Method educational program, for example, uses a long-established format based on the principles and actions of The Grief Recovery Handbook. Their format offers a structured action plan to help grieving people discover and complete what was left emotionally unfinished as a result of any loss – not just the death of a loved one. It differs from traditional groups in several ways. It focused exclusively on recovery from grief, rather than primarily being a place to share feelings. Also, the program is presented over a period of weeks and is facilitated by Certified Grief Recovery Specialists.® I found the structure and action plan it provided to be very beneficial for my own grief journey.

The Dinner Party.[2] In case you haven’t heard about them, The Dinner Party is a non-traditional grief support group which is popping up all over the country. What had begun as a casual gathering of friends became a quest to reimagine and reinvent “grief support,” and the very way we address about loss. The Dinner Party is community of mostly 20 and 30 somethings who have experienced significant loss (older attendees are also welcome). They get together over potluck dinners to talk about the ways in which grief and loss continue to affect their lives. They also talk about how to thrive after loss. Check their website for The Dinner Party location nearest you or sign up to start your own.

Death Cafés.[3] A Death Cafe is a “social franchise” that began in London in 2011 and quickly grew across North America, Europe, Australia and New Zealand. It is estimated there have been over 3,155 Death Café events around the world. At a Death Café people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death, mourning and mortality. It is not a traditional support group because there is no agenda, objective or theme. Participants are encouraged to talk about topics associated with death since it has been such a taboo subject to do so. Some events are free; others charge a nominal fee to cover the cost of food and drink. Check their website for a Death Café near you or sign up to start your own.

Bottom line, any type of support you can receive while you are grieving is a wonderful gift. A non-traditional educational program helped me to move from grief to recovery. Even if you chose not to seek help at this time, know there are different types of grief and loss support available to you when (and if) you are ready.

[1] www.griefrecoverymethod.com

[2] thedinnerparty.org

[3] deathcafe.com

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Grief Recovery Support Groups

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Grief Reiki® LLC offers the following The Grief Recovery Method® Support Groups to help participants deal with a loss of any kind. While death and divorce may seem to be the most obvious losses, courses are not limited to those losses. There are more than 43 life events that can produce feelings of grief.

What Makes Us Different

We focus on recovery from unresolved grief.

We are an educational program not counseling or therapy.

We address the emotional not intellectual side of grief.

We provide a structured action plan.

We require commitment to recovery.

We are not a “Drop In” support group.

What We Offer

The Grief Recovery Method® provides a safe environment for you to look at your old beliefs about dealing with loss, and provide actions that will lead you to complete unresolved emotions that may still be causing you pain. As a trained and Certified Grief Recovery Specialist®, we will facilitate your journey with compassion and confidentiality.

Individual and Group Sessions

Outcome: Assists recovery from loss by a series of small and correct choices made by the griever. Our job is to explain those action choices and guide the participants in taking them.

Length:  Individual Sessions (1 hour for 7 weeks) or Group Sessions (2 hours for 8 weeks)

Course agenda includes: The Grief Recovery Method Principles; Misconceptions about Grief; Concepts of Recovery; How Incomplete Loss Occurs; Identifying Incomplete Losses; Loss History Graph; Relationship Graph; and Completion Letter.

Homework: There will be weekly homework assignments.

Course Material: Included as part of investment.

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Dealing with Pet Loss

Outcome: Helps grieving pet owners discover and complete what was left emotionally unfinished and ultimately, how to have fond memories of their beloved pet not turn painful.

Length – 2 hours for 6 weeks

Course agenda includes: The Grief Recovery Method Principles; Misconceptions about Grief; Concepts of Recovery; How Incomplete Loss Occurs; Identifying Incomplete Losses; Pet Loss History Graph; Pet Relationship Graph; and Pet Completion Letter.

Homework: There will be weekly homework assignments

Course Material: Included as part of investment.

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When Children Grieve

Outcome: Assists parents/guardians by providing them with directions and guidelines to help their child’s recovery from loss.

Length: 2 hours for 6 weeks

Course agenda includes: The Grief Recovery Method Principles; Misconceptions about Grief;Concepts of Recovery;How Incomplete Loss Occurs; Identifying Incomplete Losses; Emotional Energy Checklist; Moving, Divorce and Other Losses; The “D” Word”; Learning to Avoid Incorrect Language; and Taking Children to Funerals.

Homework: There will be weekly homework assignments

Course Material: Included as part of investment.

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How to Register/Schedule

Go to: Grief Reiki Online Scheduling Tool

Pick an course option and complete one of our online Client Forms.

We accept payments through PayPal.

For other payment options, please call our office at (800) 458-7348.

All classes/sessions are held in our facility located at:

“The Edge”, 877 N. Douglas St., El Segundo, CA 90245

There is plenty of free parking.

Once you register/schedule, you will receive a confirmation email with more details.

We look forward to having you join us!

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